What was your favorite book of 2019?

It’s that time of year – when I’m printing up my “gift list” spreadsheet and brainstorming ideas for friends and family. “Gift giving” is not my love language, and I need all the help I can get, especially when there are so many people I want to show love to at Christmas.

I’m asking you, my fellow Word Nerds, for assistance. It’s a win/ win for all of us. Will you please tell me the best book you read this year? (You could even share more than one, if you have lots of ideas!) I will compile a list of all the suggestions and share them on the blog December 16. Then we will all have ideas to guide us with holiday shopping (or provide a little bookish escape for ourselves at this busy time of year). As a BONUS, I will randomly pick the name of one person who contributes to the favorites list, and that person will win a Barnes and Noble gift card! I like to call this my annual Favorite Books Giveaway.

Here are the details for 2019’s Favorite Books Giveaway

  • You may enter the giveaway by commenting here on the blog, my Facebook profile, my Twitter feed, or my Instagram Favorite Book post by Friday, December 13, 2019.
  • Your comment should include your favorite book from 2019 and a short explanation of why you recommend it.  All genres welcome.
  • The book doesn’t have to be published in 2019, just read in 2019.
  • I will announce the winner on Monday, December 16 with the full list of favorites. That will give you plenty of shopping time. 😉
  • The giveaway winner must provide a mailing address for the gift card.

Questions? Comments? Time to share our favorite titles! I’ll go first.

2019 Recommendations

One of my favorite books this year is a recent YA release from Markus Zusak, author of The Book Thief, but his novel has great appeal for adults too.

Bridge of Clay is a complicated study of family, loss, and the power of memories. Zusak writes with a distinct staccato style, and his language is arresting, beautiful, and heart breaking. This book made me cry. But I also often laughed at Zusak’s main characters- a rowdy family of five boys – young teens and young men- who are quirky and endearing, with only a mule named Achilles to watch over them.

Are you curious? You should be! You can read my full review of Bridge of Clay here. Next week I’ll add a few more recommendations, three fabulous memoirs I’ve read in recent months.

Until then, start sharing your suggestions!

The meaning Behind Black Friday

To be clear, I detest shopping, and I certainly never set foot in stores the day after Thanksgiving, I don’t care if the jeans are 50% off. But this year, my youngest son and I had to know, how did Black Friday get its name?

Turns out, Black Friday has some very dark history.

According to History.com and Businessinsider.com, the term was first used way back on Friday, September 24, 1869, when investors Jay Gould and Jim Fisk decided to drive up the price of gold by purchasing as much as they could. Their efforts caused a stock market crash, a cease of foreign trade, and a 50% drop in the value of wheat and corn. Farmers suffered significantly that year.

Very black indeed.

According to thebalance.com, the term was popular again in the 1950s when Philadelphia police used “Black Friday” to describe the chaos caused by increased pedestrian and auto traffic on the busy shopping day after Thanksgiving.

Retailers didn’t like the negative connotation of “Black Friday” and tried to spin the name to reflect the profits made on the first official shopping day of the Christmas season. (Accountants say a business is “in the black” if it operates with a profit.)

However, the chaos of Black Friday continued, with most Black Fridays of the past decade or so marred by fights, shootings, and even death. The worse incident happened in 2008 when 2000 people rushing into a New York Walmart broke through the doors and trapped a man in a vestibule. He died from asphyxiation.

See why I stay home? This is what I don’t like about Christmas – the endless consumption spurred on by retailers and advertisers. Where are we as a society if we are shooting people over a parking space or fighting over a discounted T.V.? We have lost the meaning of the holiday.

If you are out there today, or any other Black Friday, be careful. Don’t be distracted by the traffic or the sale signs. That’s not what the holiday, or we, should be about.

Do you venture out on Black Friday? Why is it worth it to you?

Thanks for getting thoughtful with me!

Greatest Books that Every Dog Owner Should Read

Today, a guest post from Leslie Simpson of Homemakerguide.com. She’s going to share some great books about dogs!

Discover the best dog books and learn how to treat your pet differently! We’ve compiled a list of top books that you can read to change perspective. It’s all here, get started.

Dogs can be one of the best companions for humans, but it is challenging for new pet owners to understand the various signs given out by these faithful pets. A great deal of knowledge is required to interact in a better way with pets. It is also essential to have a lot of awareness about the different facets of a dog to be able to train them well.

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Thankfully, several resources come in handy while trying to understand dogs. These are primarily in the form of books. Some of the best books every dog owner should have are the following.

The Other End of the Leash: Why We Do What We Do Around Dogs – by Patricia B. McConnell

Patricia McConnell is an animal behaviorist and zoologist who has dealt heavily with subjects like dog’s behavior and actions. The focus of this book is communication, which can be among dogs or between dogs and humans. There exists many communication differences between these relationships, but it is brought out well with a lot of examples and experiences. McConnell has extensive knowledge of working with dogs and wolves. Some suggestions made by the book are to take up the role of a ‘compassionate leader’ than an alpha. It is a great book to understand the different behaviors of a dog – when interacting with other animals and when interacting with its owner.

Reaching the Animal Mind: Clicker Training and What It Teaches Us About All Animals by Karen Pryor

Karen Pryor is the author of this book, which manages to provide a tremendous amount of information regarding dogs and how to train them. Many consider this as one of the best dog books for the type of training approach preached. This training approach is considered as a successful method for creating a strong bond between man and animal. Pryor is a great advocate of clicker training, which involves creating a consistent clicker sound to alter a dog’s behavior. The method consists of treating the dog with a reward if it manages to change its behavior with an associated sound.
Clicker training is very practical, and it is capable of acting even on older dogs. Crucially, this book can come out with information about the technique and science behind the clicker training method, and it will be sufficient to reinforce people’s belief in this system further.

Cesar’s Way: The Natural, Everyday Guide to Understanding and Correcting Common Dog Problems – by Cesar Millan

Cesar Millan is the controversial dog trainer who also hosts the ‘Dog Whisperer’ show on National Geographic. His techniques of training dogs are primarily based on the old-school philosophy of dominance, but it is still relevant in the case of older dogs. There are also several instances – like in the case of an unruly dog – where techniques mentioned by Millan tend to work well. Since the knowledge acquired by Millan is born out of experience rather than academics, one can be sure that the methods listed out in this book tend to work. A significant section of Millan’s training methods focuses on physical communication and dog psychology.

Don’t Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training, by Karen Pryor

It is one of the numerous books on training dogs, but it comes with a difference. Trainer Karen Pryor has come out with a string of training methods that would even be applicable for humans. It focuses on ‘affection training’ as a means to encourage change in behavior.
Many people make the mistake of trying to use force or authority to make dogs understand commands, but this may not be the right way to make a dog know that specific behaviors are not acceptable. This book focuses on imparting a particular response even as a puppy, as it would help bring out a quick change. Pryor is also a massive advocate of socialization by puppies to make them go through changes in an effortless manner.

Perfect Puppy in 7 Days: How to Start Your Puppy Off Right, by Dr. Sophia Yin

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Dr. Sophia Yin is the animal behaviorist and veterinarian who was known for her stellar work with dogs before passing away in 2014. Yin was immensely responsible for changing the notion that dominance was required by pet owners to ensure proper behavior from their pets. Instead, Yin focused on a humanitarian approach towards reinforcing good behavior among dogs. This book best describes this ground-breaking approach, and it is a gold standard for owners not keen on dominating their pets.

Conclusion

These books break down several training styles and the significant differences between them—just like how homemakerguide.com places focus on top home improvement products. These training techniques are excellent when it comes to frequently addressing issues seen amongst puppies. Sticking with these techniques should ensure a positive and trustworthy relationship between a puppy and a pet owner. They are also quite helpful in dealing with older pets. What do you think? Let us know in the comments!

About my guest blogger

Leslie Simpson is a person who devoted all her amazing life to cultivating, homesteading, planting, growing, caring, making the perfect landscape and all other things home and garden as well as a writer with https://homemakerguide.com/.  She considers herself a Word Nerd as well counting numerous books she read through the years.

Three teen terms you must know

There are many benefits to coaching high school cross country. I get to be active and encourage young people to work hard, set goals, and challenge themselves. I get to spend a lot of time outside, often on pretty trails, chatting with kids. But honestly, the best part of coaching teens?

They make me laugh.

And, they are off!

When I’ve had a rough day, and I show up to practice cranky, inevitably my runners will do or say something to make me smile. As a Word Nerd, one of the things I enjoy most about teens is learning their language. It’s constantly changing, and I love to try and keep up.

During workouts and the stretches that follow, I hear all kinds of new expressions, like “It do be that way until it don’t be.” Or “Yeet!”, “Shut up, Boomer!”, and “Stop cappin'”. I squint, I strain, I try to understand, and finally, I just ask for an explanation. Usually, they laugh at me, but I’m willing to endure ridicule in my pursuit of understanding adolescent verbiage.

So for you today, an explanation of three words I hear teens throwing around. These words are already “old”, and my comprehension late, but I’m sure you’ll still smile.

yeet: According to Urban Dictionary, yeet can be used as an exclamation, a verb, or even a noun. Dictionary.com says it was first popular as an exclamation way back in 2008 when it was used to express excitement or approval. In 2014, the term yeet described a dance that was popular in You Tube and Vine videos. Yeet got popular again in 2016 in a viral video of a girl tossing a soda can into a school hallway while shouting “Yeet!” So the verb yeet usually refers to heaving something. In 2018, the American Dialect Society voted yeet, an “indication of surprise or excitement,” the Slang/Informal Word of the Year.

Boomer: a slang term for a Baby Boomer or anyone who is older than the person using the word; it’s usually an insult; often meant to characterize someone as one or more of the following: old, white, suburbanite, likes 80s rock, MAGA, balding, passionate about lawn mowing, hates Millennials, works in an office, uses phrases like “back in my day”, etc. (Urban Dictionary)

Clownin’: Used to describe someone who is doing something foolish or ridiculous; can be used as a verb, to make someone look stupid or to play a joke on someone. This one has actually been around for a while; I’ve recently heard a resurgence of the term at practice.

There you go! Now you know some key teen terms, but stay on your toes. There will be at least five new ones next week. 😉

Word Nerd note: I told my kids about this post, and child #3 said, “Mom, boomer isn’t a word you need to analyze. You just use it, you know?” Ha!

Wondrous Words Wednesday

If you like to learn new words and the origins of their meanings, visit the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme at Bermuda Onion. Each Wednesday, bloggers share new words they’ve learned.

What are some fun “teen words” you use or want to know more about?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Please vote!

I know, I know, I don’t like politics either.  There’s too much name calling, finger pointing, and fact spinning, on all sides.  But these people who sit in the halls of Congress, who cast votes in our state capitals, and who serve in local government offices are the ones who decide how our tax dollars are spent, what are kids study in public school, and how we are going to pay for healthcare.  Shouldn’t we be paying attention to what they are doing?

It’s not a presidential election year, but please take the time to learn a little bit about the candidates who are running for local, state, and federal offices.  Seek out facts on the relevant issues from multiple and reputable sources. And on Tuesday, November 5, cast your vote. 

Thanks for getting democratic with me!

What is a fartlek?

Running talk abounds in my world right now. A few weeks ago, the amazing Eliud Kipchoge ran a marathon in less than two hours. (That’s 26.2 miles, people. It would take me two hours to run half that far!) Speaking of a half marathon, my hubby is training for one in November. And, perhaps most importantly to this cross country coach, we have entered post season and are competing in district, region, and hopefully state championships over the next three weeks.

So yeah, lots of running talk. My runners are shifting their focus from distance training to speed work, which makes it necessary for us to use a funny Swedish word at practice – fartlek.

Yes, fartlek.

We can’t even say it without eliciting snickers from around our circle of runners, especially the middle schoolers. But fartlek actually has nothing to do with flatulence. It’s a training technique that most serious runners are very familiar with.

fartlek (\ ˈfärtˌlek\ ) from Swedish, from fart speed, pace (from Middle Low German vart journey, pace, alteration of Old Saxon fard; akin to Old English fierd, fyrd military expedition, campaign) + lek play, game, from Old Norse leikr

“Fartlek”, or speed play, describes interval training in which a runner alternates periods of sprinting with periods of jogging. You can base fartleks on time or distance. (Thank you, Merriam-Webster.)

So, next time you hear fartlek, think of a surge workout, not that other thing.

We’ve got our district championship meet today! Wish us luck. Hopefully, all of those fartleks will pay off!

Wondrous Words Wednesday

If you like to learn new words and the origins of their meanings, visit the Wondrous Words Wednesday meme at Bermuda Onion. Each Wednesday, bloggers share new words they’ve learned.

Did you know what fartlek means? Do you have a funny term from sports or training to share?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!