Five fabulous Word Nerd gift ideas for 2021

Gifts cause me the most stress at Christmas. The idea of finding things to make so many different people happy taxes my already busy brain. This year, I’m trying a new strategy. I fully acknowledge, to myself and my family, that gifts cause me anxiety, and I’m just not going to give them too much significance. If I find a great gift for someone on my list, fantastic! If not, well that’s just how it’s going to be. Celebrating the birth of a savior should not make me panic.

If you, like me, struggle with the gift giving aspect of the holidays, here are five of my bookish and not so bookish favorite things from 2021 that might help you with your gift list!

Pony by RJ Palacio

Palacio wrote the lovely kidlit book Wonder, and this year she has published another gem. Here’s the blurb: Twelve-year-old Silas is awoken in the dead of night by three menacing horsemen who take his father away. Silas is left shaken, scared, and alone, except for the presence of his companion, Mittenwool . . . who happens to be a ghost. When a pony shows up at his door, Silas makes the courageous decision to leave his home and embark on a perilous journey to find his father. Along the way, he will face his fears to unlock the secrets of his past and explore the unfathomable mysteries of the world around him.

Pony is a fantastic quest story set in 1860 with suspense and supernatural elements. Silas is an unusual boy, and his story explores the delicate line between belief in the truth and acceptance of the unknown. It’s targeted at middle grade readers (8-12 years old), but I think anyone would enjoy this well written novel. I listened to the audiobook, which is done well, and I’m gifting several copies of this book.

Ten Thousand Tries by Amy Makechnie

Ten Thousand Tries by Amy Makechnie is another wonderful kidlit novel. The blurb: Twelve-year-old Golden Maroni is determined to channel his hero, soccer superstar Lionel Messi, and become captain of his soccer team and master of his eighth grade universe…especially since his home universe is spiraling out of orbit. Off the field, Golden’s dad, once a pro soccer player himself, is now battling ALS, a disease that attacks his muscles, leaving him less and less physically able to control his body every day. And while Mom says there’s no cure, Golden is convinced that his dad can beat this, just like any opponent, they just have to try. See my full review here.

The Guncle by Steven Rowley

If you are looking for something more on the adult side, I really enjoyed The Guncle by Steven Rowley. The blurb: From the bestselling author of Lily and the Octopus and The Editor comes a warm and deeply funny novel about a once-famous gay sitcom star whose unexpected family tragedy leaves him with his niece and nephew for the summer. The Guncle is a funny, thoughtful, and not too serious look at the grief process that includes a lot of ice cream. My full review is here.

Back and neck massager

Nope, this has nothing to do with words or books, but I LOVE my massager, the Resteck electric shiatsu back and neck massager. I can place it over any sore muscle, and the rotating knobs deliver much needed heat and relief to my trigger points and tight spots. This particular model comes with a travel bag and car charger! (After I demonstrated the glory of my massager at a book club meeting, several members purchased one.) Thank you Caroline for recommending this awesome tool!

Instant Pot

My mother in law gave me an Instant Pot for my birthday, and it is the best thing for a busy chef. You can use it as a slow cooker or a pressure cooker, and it’s a great way to cook up tasty one pot meals. When using the pressure cooker mode, the unit takes a while to build up pressure, so cooking time isn’t that much shorter than normal cooking. However cooking meat in the pressure cooker produces more tender and moist results compared to a crock pot. There is a safety valve on the top to let you know when all of the pressure is released, so I have never had any safety concerns. You can check out Instant Pot recipes I have tried on my Pinterest Instant Pot board.

Goodreads Choice Awards

The Goodreads Choice award winners are out for 2021, and this list is always a great place to find more book ideas. I was happy to see Andy Weir’s Project Hail Mary on the list – my boys, who love sci fi, enjoyed this book.

How about you? What have been some of your favorite things in 2021 that you would recommend gifting to others? Leave your suggestions in the comments.

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

How to say “omicron”

Well, we’ve been wrestling with it all week – how to say “omicron”, the name given by the World Health Organization to the latest COVID “variant of concern“. The Word Nerd is here to tell you your options, as well as why the WHO chose this particular Greek letter.

Pronunciation of omicron

According to Merriam-Webster, omicron is the 15th letter in the Greek alphabet and can be pronounced one of two ways. Either ah-macron (which is supposedly the American pronunciation) or “oh-macron” which is supposedly the British. If you’d like to hear it for yourself, check out this You Tube video:

I think the British version sounds more fancy and refined, so I’m going with that, and leading with an “oh” sound. (I’m also the girl who has her SIRI voice set to a British man who I like to refer to as Watson, so take that into account.) The look of the letter is nothing special – your basic o.

Why is this variant named omicron?

The other thing I’ve been wondering is why the WHO chose omicron. As new variants have emerged, the WHO has worked its way through the Greek alphabet, starting with alpha and moving down the list. However, after Mu, the next two letters are Nu and Xi. According to the New York Times, WHO officials thought that Nu would be too easily confused with “new” and “Xi” is a common name in many countries and could create problems. For example, the top leader of China is Xi Jinping. So, they skipped to omicron.

What we know about omicron

We don’t know much yet except that the omicron variant is here and spreading. As of Dec 2, 2021, two cases have been found in the US and cases have also been found in several European countries and Australia. And of course South Africa. Scientists will need some time and data before they can make definitive statements. In the meantime, you can read about what is currently known in this NYT article, “Omicron: What Is Known — and Still Unknown“, posted Dec 2, 2021.

How do you choose to pronounce omicron, and how do you keep up to date on the science of COVID? I like to listen to podcasts like The Daily and read articles from reliable sources, however, as the media tends to emphasize negative news, I’m trying to keep myself informed without getting sucked into too much pessimistic reporting.

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

Prep your heart and mind for a positive Thanksgiving

Hi everyone! This week I will be busy cleaning, cooking, and practicing deep breathing to NOT wind myself into a knot as I prepare to welcome family into our home for Thanksgiving. I’m looking forward to seeing everyone. However, I am NOT looking forward to prepping food for 18 people for several meals. Luckily, everyone likes to pitch in. (And the teenagers may not like to pitch in, but they will when prompted.)

I’m not gonna lie- I purchased three bottles of wine for the celebration. 🙂

This weekend during a long drive, I listened to a FANTASTIC podcast episode from Kelly Corrigan Wonders. In it, Kelly and her guest Anna Quinlan, both of them best selling authors, share pieces they have written in honor of Thanksgiving. The episode is funny, thruthful, and full of great advice for preparing your heart and mind for Thanksgiving. I strongly recommend you listen… like while you are baking pies or scrubbing toilets or packing. 🙂

Like Kelly and Anna, I encourage you to have an attitude of gratitude and forgiveness (for yourself and your family) this Thanksgiving.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Beware of book burning in America

Book burning is something that happened long ago, in Nazi Germany before WWII, so that Hitler could control what German people read and thought. Nothing like that would ever happen in America in the 21st century, right?

We’ll see.

Last week, in my home state of Virginia, two elected officials, members of the Sponsylvania County School Board, suggested that two books they found offensive should not just be removed from school libraries. They wanted them burned.

According to the Free Lance Star, board member Rabih Abuismail said, ““I think we should throw those books in a fire,” and board member Kirk Twigg, said he wants to “see the books before we burn them so we can identify within our community that we are eradicating this bad stuff.”

In the end, the board voted 6-0 to remove books with “sexually explicit” material from library shelves and discussed reviewing how books are chosen for school libraries. No burning has taken place – yet.

When I heard this story, a chill passed through me. Burning books? That’s what we are devolving to now? I understand that parents may have concerns about the content of books, and I respect that some people might be offended by the content of Toni Morrison’s Beloved or Salinger’s Catcher in the Rye. I’m all for transparency about book content and the freedom to choose alternatives. However, the recent rise in calls for book removal, and this specific instance of calling for book burning, have me very concerned about where we are heading in this country, and how politics is seeping into the once mundane and, dare I say, boring world of school board meetings.

Some history on book burning

In 1933, university students in towns across Germany burned over 25,000 books by Jewish and/or blacklisted authors: Sigmund Freud, Albert Einstein, Hellen Keller, Ernest Hemingway. At the time, the German minister of Public Enlightenment and Propaganda, Joseph Goebbels, told thousands of Germans that “the era of extreme Jewish intellectualism is now at an end. … The future German man will not just be a man of books, but a man of character. It is to this end that we want to educate you. … And thus you do well in this midnight hour to commit to the flames the evil spirit of the past.”

The American media expressed some shock, but one journalist, New York Herald Tribune columnist Walter Lippmann, took the book burnings as an ominous predictor of what was to come. He said, “”These acts symbolize the moral and intellectual character of the Nazi regime, for these bonfires are not the work of schoolboys or mobs but of the present German Government … The ominous symbolism of [this act and] these bonfires is that there is a government in Germany which means to teach its people that their salvation lies in violence.”

And so it did.

The Catcher in the Rye has had many challenges over the years

Books have been challenged and banned for a long time. Visit the American Library Association’s website to see books that have been frequently challenged and why. (I was shocked to learn from this page that as recently as 2001, books by J.R.R. Tolkein were burned in New Mexico because they were deemed “satanic”!) What’s new is the coordinated effort behind the removal of materials. We’re hearing stories about challenges across the country in places like Texas and Kansas. There were even calls for removal of materials at the last school board meeting in my own little old Wythe County.

According to Nora Pelizzari, a spokeswoman at the National Coalition Against Censorship, “What has taken us aback this year is the intensity with which school libraries are under attack.” She added that the apparent coordination of the effort sets it apart: “Particularly when taken in concert with the legislative attempts to control school curricula, this feels like a more overarching attempt to purge schools of materials that people disagree with. It feels different than what we’ve seen in recent years.” (From The Washington Post)

What concerns me

The world is very different now compared to 1933. Books are ubiquitous and come in many forms – paperback, e-book, audiobook. Posts about books fill Instagram and Twitter. Tik Tok videos promote books via Book-Tok. I’m not worried that we won’t have access to books. I’m worried about the mindset behind the desire to limit access.

Choosing to review, and perhaps even restrict books. for sexually explicit content is one thing. Although, I must point out there is more sex, as well as violence, profanity, and nudity, on the Internet than in any book. Also, books usually present edgy content in context – showing how characters are influenced and affected by it. You often don’t get context on social media. But, you can’t take down You Tube, much less burn it. So people are targeting something tangible – books.

Unfortunately, I doubt this line will end with “sexually explicit” books. In October, a lawmaker in Texas started an investigation into books that “contain material that might make students feel discomfort, guilt, anguish, or any other form of psychological distress because of their race or sex or convey that a student, by virtue of their race or sex, is inherently racist, sexist, or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously.” That’s getting into very gray, and very political, water.

And we, my fellow book lovers, need to be paying attention. We can take inspiration from Helen Keller. When she learned university students in Germany were planning on burning her books, she wrote an open letter to them that said:

Have you heard of any calls for book burning? What do you think of the current enthusiasm behind reviewing school materials?

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!

What you should know about Veteran’s Day

On Saturday, when I ran into Walmart to pick up some socks, a man in a VFW hat greeted me at the entrance. “Hello there,” said the Veteran of Foreign Wars. I was in a hurry, but something about his age, the pins on his hat, and the way he smiled reminded me of my Dad. I stopped.

My dad passed away in April. He was a veteran of the Vietnam War and a proud wearer of baseball hats with pins that memorialized the things he loved: Civil War battle sites, the University of Virginia, and being an army vet.

I pulled out my wallet and put a bill in the VFW collection basket. The volunteer offered me a plastic red poppy, but I declined. I didn’t need a token reminder. My donation honored my dad, and giving it gave me a smile, and I won’t lie, and a few tears.

At church the next day, Terry, the pastor’s wife, spoke to the children about Veteran’s Day. She told them about the history of Veteran’s Day and why we celebrate it. Then she offered each of them a tiny green soldier to take home to remind them to pray. I almost took a soldier, but I have enough things of Dad’s in my house these days to remind me of him and to pray for vets.

What I didn’t have enough of was knowledge about the history of Veteran’s Day. Thank you, Terry, for the inspiration. And you too, Dad. Sorry I didn’t do this sooner.

My dad, on the left, in Vietnam, with his friend who sent me this picture. His friend apologized for the photo quality, saying, “we only had film cameras and had to send the film from Vietnam to California to get developed, so you didn’t throw any pictures away.” I think it’s a treasure!

The history of Veteran’s Day

According to History.com, Veteran’s Day started as Armistice Day on November 11, 1919, one year after the end of WWI. (For you Word Nerds, armistice comes from the Latin arma meaning weapons + the Latin sistere to come to a stand.) The name Armistice Day referred to the agreement between the Allied Powers and Germany to end the fighting of the first World War on the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month. In 1926, Congress passed a resolution to make it a yearly observance, and in 1938, it became a national holiday. In 1956, the name officially changed to Veteran’s Day.

On Veteran’s Day, we celebrate all veterans, living or dead, but especially living vets who served our country. Interestingly, Great Britain, France, Australia, and Canada also commemorate Veterans of WWI and II near November 11. In some countries, it’s called “Remembrance Day.”

According to History.com , there were 19 million living veterans in April of 2021. And Virginia, my home state, is one of the top three states with the highest percentage of veterans. Considering how many vets live near the national capital and in the Hampton Roads area, I’m not surprised.

Thank a vet!

My father in law is also a vet who served in the Vietnam War. His stories are so different from what you typically hear about Vietnam. He was a civil engineer in the navy, and he went into Vietnam later in the war to supervise the rebuilding of areas for the native people. He talks about what a beautiful country it is and how much the people appreciated what he and his men were doing. Perhaps I should ask for more stories this Thanksgiving. And thank him for his service.

Thank you to all veterans. It is no small job you’ve done for us, and you don’t get enough credit.

Do you know a veteran? Ask them for a story and thank them for their service this week.

Need humor? Read The Guncle

If you, like me, are tired of depressing headlines in your news feed and are dreading the stress of the holidays, let me introduce you to a warm, funny, and thoughtful gem of a book that might be the perfect distraction right now. The Guncle, by Steven Rowley, tells the story of Patrick, a once famous sitcom star who is forced out of his self imposed solitude when tragedy strikes his family.

The Premise

After his TV show was cancelled, and his long time partner Joe died in a tragic car accident, Patrick retreated to the quiet and sunshine of Palm Springs. When crisis strikes his family, he finds himself the sole caregiver of his niece and nephew. Patrick has plenty of money and lots of opinions about fashion, healthy eating, and society’s obsession with social media. However, he has a lot to learn about taking care of two children under ten and helping them navigate the murky waters of grief and loss.

What I Liked

Patrick is hilarious. His humor is witty, his commentary on social norms insightful. I love it when he says that everyone taking, posting, and re-watching videos of themselves is “masturbatory”. His references to pop culture suggest he’s about my age, a child of the 80s, and many of his quips made me smile. His approach to parenting is often unorthodox, but it’s obvious that he cares about his niece and nephew and wants to help them. His unusual approach to guiding his charges gently calls into question what we accept and do not accept as “okay” in parenting today.

When his niece Maisy doesn’t want to wear a girl’s bathing suit, Patrick definitively states, “There is no one right way or wrong way to dress.” When he “tag teams” disciplining his young guests while his sister is visiting, he observes, “wow, this really is easier with a partner.”

Patrick must help his niece and nephew as they grieve the loss of their mother, and in the process, Patrick navigates his own grief and ends up healthier for it.

Even though The Guncle deals with some tough issues, such as grief, death, cancer, and loss, it balances the heavy with genuine humor. I am currently grieving my father, and the book helped me to process my own loss without making me feel sad.

What I didn’t like

The Guncle or GUP are nick names for Patrick that focus solely on his sexual orientation – he is gay. I found this, and many stereotypes about gay people peppered throughout the novel, a little off putting. For example, Patrick’s neighbors are “a thruple” – three gay men living together. They like to swim naked and have statues of gay men with large penises scattered throughout their house. It seemed a little too “The Bird Cage” for me. However, the author, Steven Rowley, is gay, so I guess his sensitivities and understanding of this issue are better than mine.

For an interesting Q and A with Rowley about The Guncle, see this interview on BookTrib: Steven Rowley’s “The Guncle” Packs a Gut-Punch of Heart and Humor.

Have you read The Guncle or Rowley’s other books, The Editor and Lily and the Octopus? Please share your thoughts!

Thanks for getting nerdy with me!